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Family Ties

“If you think you're enlightened, go spend a week with your family.”

- Ram Dass -
Key Themes
  • Childhood Neglect
  • Painful Upbringing
  • The First 3 Years
  • Still Face Experiment
  • Inner Child Work
  • Re-Parenting Self
Key Thinkers
  • Gabor Maté
  • Edward Tronick
  • Nicole LePera
  • Alain De Botton
  • Russell Brand
  • Nadine Burke-Harris
Attachment & The First Three Years

By Gabor Maté
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What We Can Learn From The Still Face Experiment

By Edward Tronick
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How We Can Work With (& Re-Parent) The “Inner Child”

By Nicole LePera
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How Our Childhoods Impacts Our Adulthoods

By The School Of Life

Coming To Terms With Toxicity At Home

By Russell Brand


They fuck you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had.  And add some extra, just for you.

  - Philip Larkin


The Impact Of Being Neglected In Childhood

By SciShow, CODC & Better Help

How Adverse Childhood Experiences Linger

By Nadine Burke-Harris, Big Think, Health Happens Here & UCLA Health

How To Spot The Signs Of Childhood Trauma

By Crappy Childhood Fairy

Learning How To Re-Parent Ourselves

By Lewis Psychology, The School Of Life & Kati Morton

Childhood, Upbringing & Our DNA

By DNA Is Not Destiny
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The Impact Of Early Life Stress On Children

By Raising Of America
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Tips & Webisodes

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Psychology Today
Why It Can Be So Hard to Forgive Your Parent

Full Article

Refinery29
How To Heal Your Inner Child — & Why You’d Want To

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Healthline
Do the First 7 Years of Life Really Mean Everything?

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Ed Tronick and the “Still Face Experiment”

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psychology Today
What the Still Face Experiment Teaches Us About Distracted Parenting

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Business Insider
30 scientific ways your childhood affects your success as an adult

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NPR
Some Early Childhood Experiences Shape Adult Life, But Which Ones?

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The Primal Wound – the Influence of our Childhood Traumas

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Psych Central
6 Steps to Help Heal Your Inner Child

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Psychology Today
Unresolved Anger Towards Our Parents

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The Conversation
When a mom feels depressed, her baby’s cells might feel it too

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Psychology Today
Essential Secrets of Psychotherapy : The Inner Child

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Psych Central
7 Lessons to Unlearn from a Toxic Childhood and How to Do It

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The Guardian
How you attach to people may explain a lot about your inner life

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Psych Central
Emotional Neglect in Childhood: Signs, Effects & How to Cope

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Forgiving Your Parents

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D.I.Y.


Loner Wolf

Inner Child Work: 4 Healing Techniques to Overcome Trauma

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Inner child healing: 5 surprisingly powerful exercises

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Sara Gottfried
Why Sara Recommends Knowing Your Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) Score

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Book Extracts

Introduction: Origins
Taken from The Power Of Discord, by by Ed Tronick. PhD &  Claudia M. Gold, MD.
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An Introduction to Reparenting
Taken from How to Do the Work, by Nicole Lepera.
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Introduction
Taken from They F*** You Up, by Oliver James.
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Before We Are Even Born
Taken from Blueprint, by Lucy Maddox
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The Wounds Of Childhood
Taken from Give Back the Pain, by Robert T. Bleck, PhD.
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      • Live (& Let Die)
      • Paradise Lost
      • Radical Acceptance
      • Resilience
      • Stoic
      • Tales Of Yesterday
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      • Johann Hari
      • Ryan Holiday
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      • Carl Jung
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      • Steven Kotler
      • Ellen Langer
      • Nicole LePera
      • Mark Manson
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      • Kelly McGonigal
      • Greg McKeown
      • Kristin Neff
      • Cal Newport
      • Friedrich Nietzsche
      • Gabriele Oettingen
      • Dan Pink
      • Steven Pressfield
      • Jordan Peterson
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      • Tony Robbins
      • Ken Robinson
      • Gretchen Rubin
      • Laurie Santos
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