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Toxic Positivity

“Fake happiness is the worst kind of sadness.”

- Dominic Riccitello -
Key Themes
  • Toxic Positivity
  • Faking Happiness
  • Surface Acting
  • Relentless Optimism
  • Invalidating Behaviour
  • Putting On An Act
Key Thinkers
  • Susan David
  • Oliver Burkeman
  • Kate Bowler
  • Whitney Goodman
  • Barbara Ehrenreich
  • Jaime Zuckerman
The Perils of Too Much Positivity (& What The Antidote Is),

By Oliver Burkeman

The Dark Underside Of This Need To Be So Cheerful

By Kate Bowler

The Problem With Feeling We Have To Look On The Bright Side

By Barbara Ehrenheich

How We Can Hurt People By Being Too Positive

By Whitney Goodman
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The Tyranny Of Toxic Positivity

By Susan David
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What Toxic Positivity  Sounds Like

By Jaime Zuckerman
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It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

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Quartz
People are making themselves miserable by trying too hard to be happy

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Mindful
The Tyranny of Relentless Positivity

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The Atlantic
The Opposite of Toxic Positivity

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'Tragic optimism': The antidote to toxic positivity

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Upworthy
the difference between support & 'toxic positivity'

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There’s a dark side to looking on the bright side

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Trying to Be Happy Is Making You Miserable

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HBR
Don’t Just Put on a Happy Face at Work

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Very Well Mind
What Is Toxic Positivity?

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Positive Psychology
How to Avoid the Positivity Trap

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Inc.
How to Avoid Toxic Optimism

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Why We shouldn’t always look on the bright side

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Susan David

The Dangers of Toxic Positivity

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Book Extracts

On Trying Too Hard To Be Happy
Taken from The Antidote, by Oliver Burkeman.
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'Bright-Sided': When Happiness Doesn't Help
Taken from Smile Or Die, by Barbara Ehrenreich.
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You Deserve More Than Just Good Vibes
Taken from Toxic Positivity, by Whitney Goodman.
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Prologue
Taken from Don't Tell Me To Calm Down, by Erin Donley.
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